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Next Steps After Loss exists for one purpose: to give families clear, plain-English probate guidance when they have no idea where to begin.

Over the years, I’ve watched so many families feel stuck and overwhelmed after losing someone they love—not because they’re unprepared emotionally, but because probate is complicated, unfamiliar, and full of information no one teaches you ahead of time.

I created this service to reach the people who need it most: families trying to do the right thing, but unsure what steps to take, what forms to file, or how to navigate disagreements between relatives. My background in probate and estate matters, paired with real experience helping families work through conflict, allows me to break everything down simply so you can move forward with confidence, not confusion.

If your mom, dad, spouse, or another loved one just died, I’m truly sorry you’re even on this page. On top of the grief, you’re suddenly staring at court papers, bank accounts, a house, and a bunch of family opinions. It’s normal to feel frozen and think, “I don’t even know what to do first.” That’s exactly what Next Steps After Loss is for.

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Who this is for

• A loved one just passed (or recently passed).

• There’s a house, bank accounts, car, or other assets in their name.

• You’re not sure if you need a lawyer, where to file, or what order to do things in.

• You want someone to walk you through the next 30-60 days in plain English.

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What I do

I help families:

• Understand whether probate is actually required for their situation.

• See which court they’ll be dealing with and what that court usually expects.

• Lay out a simple step-by-step plan for the next 30-60 days.

• Draft plain-language letters/emails you can send to:

• Heirs and family members

• Realtors

• Creditors and debt collectors

• Utilities and other companies

I use AI behind the scenes to draft checklists and letters quickly, then I review and customize everything so it fits your county, your facts, and your family dynamics.

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The Probate Companion Call (60–90 minutes on Zoom)

Let me give you peace of mind.

Here’s how it works:

Quick intake form (online)

You answer a few questions about:

• Who died

• Where they lived in Alabama

• Basic list of assets (house, bank accounts, vehicles, life insurance, etc.)

• Any issues (no will, siblings fighting, debt, foreclosure, etc.)

A 60–90 minute Probate Game plan Call (Zoom or phone) will be scheduled, where we will go through:

• What probate will likely look like in your county

• Whether you probably need a lawyer or can start some things yourself

• The order of operations so you’re not guessing

• Common mistakes to avoid that can cost time and money

You will receive a written 30-Day Next Steps Plan + Templates

After the call, you’ll get:

• A written 30-day action plan in plain English

• A personalized checklist of what to do and when

• Draft email/letter templates you can send to:

• Family members

• Creditors/debt collectors

• Realtor or potential buyers

• Utility companies and others

If you are still uncertain whether this is right for you, please email Support@NextStepsAfterLoss.com to ask any additional questions you may have.

You’ll know: “Here’s what I’m doing this week, next week, and the week after that.”

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What you walk away with

By the end of this process, you’ll have:

• A clear understanding of what probate will look like for your specific situation.

• A step-by-step plan for the next 30 days.

• Written templates so you don’t have to stare at a blank screen when you need to email or mail people.

• A place to ask, “If this were your family, what would you do?” and get a real answer.

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Who I am

Hi, I’m Bobby. I’m based in Alabama, and I have years of experience in real-world situations (I have unique insights into so many situations that mirror what you’re dealing with right now.) like:

• Buying and selling properties tied up in probate and estates

• Dealing with courts, title issues, and messy paperwork

• Navigating family dynamics when everyone is stressed, grieving, sometimes even hostile.

I’m not your lawyer and I don’t replace one. What I do is help you:

• Understand the big picture

• Get organized

• Avoid common mistakes

• Feel less alone in the process

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Important disclaimer (please read)

Next Steps After Loss is not a law firm and does not provide legal advice.

Nothing on this website or in our calls creates an attorney-client relationship.

I can’t file documents for you or tell you exactly what a judge will do. I can help you understand your options in plain English and point you toward when it’s smart to talk to an attorney licensed in Alabama.

“Choose the level of help you need.”

FAQ

Is this only for Alabama?

No. I specialize in Alabama, but I know this is a subject where a lot of families can’t find answers, so I can work with families dealing with estates in any state; however, probate rules vary from state to state, so I will make a personalized probate packet that covers any state where my services are needed. Just email me at support@NextStepsAfterLoss.com

Do you replace a probate lawyer?

No. I don’t act as your attorney, and I can’t give you legal advice. Many families use this service before or alongside a lawyer so they can ask better questions and stay organized.

What if we already have a lawyer?

Great. I can help you understand the process, keep track of deadlines, and handle communication with family, creditors, and others so you’re not relying on your attorney for every small question.

What if there’s no will?

That’s very common. We’ll talk through what “intestate” (no-will) probate usually looks like in Alabama and what that might mean for heirs, the house, and other assets.

What if my family is fighting?

I have unique skills that will give us the best shot possible to mend torn relationships if it’s possible. I can’t resolve every family conflict, but I can help you understand what the court prioritizes, what’s driven by emotion, and how to communicate more effectively about the plan.

Ready for your next steps?